Also sad is that fact that as bad as it can feel here in the US, there are places in the world where it's far worse. In India and parts of the Middle East, just to name other places where it's been making the news recently, women experience much higher rates of street harassment, and it's more likely to escalate to physical contact such as groping or assault. A cultural shift that emphasizes women's autonomy and dignity is what is necessary to stop a lot of the issues that women face, from street harassment to sexual assault and domestic violence.
But, hey, all this shit is making me depressed, so let's talk about something else.
1. The Scientifiic Case for Decriminalizing Sex Work
Want to check the spread of HIV and AIDS? Start treating sex workers like human beings.
According to recent data from the World Health Organization, female sex workers are 14 times as likely to have HIV as other women, yet fear of arrest and stigma often prevents them from seeking medical care.
2. I'm Forcing Myself To Wear Beloved Old Clothes I Can't Bear To Donate
I totally get where this girl is coming from. I don't follow the "if you haven't worn it in a year, get rid of it" rule because it always seems like when I've done that, the thing I just got rid of becomes cool again and I miss it, but I definitely have items from my early college days that I just cannot get rid of. Mostly old band t-shirts. Sentimental value, y'all.
3. Why Can't We Stop Talking About Bikini Bodies?
If you have a body and a bikini, you have a bikini body. Even Gisele doesn't look like Gisele without a lot of work, so it's about time we stop making women feel like they need to have perfectly toned and supple bodies in order to rock a swimsuit in public.
4. Sisterhood of the Traveling Dress
The lovely Joanna of Dividing Vintage Moments is sending one of the dresses in her fabulous collection around the US (and then on to the rest of the world). If you're interested, post a comment by tomorrow. I'm signed up already, and I can't wait to style this beautiful piece.
5. Weird Al Endures
Weird Al's new album, Mandatory Fun, is #1 on the Billboard Charts. Just soak that up for a moment.
Ditto entirely on the "if you haven't worn it in a year rule". Yes, okay, if your closet is bursting at the seams, maybe its time to let some pieces that haven't partied since it was 1999 go, but if you love your clothes, they fit, are in good condition, and you have the room, there's little sense in parting ways with perfectly good garments (assuming of course you don't need to liquidate for the sake of making money).
ReplyDeleteEngaging, excellent links, dear gal. Thank you for sharing all of them with us.
♥ Jessica
I'm glad that you enjoyed them. :-) I'm also glad I'm not the only one that sometimes holds onto clothes for dear life. I swear, that whole "throw it out if you haven't worn it in a year" is a scheme created by magazine editors and the fashion industry to make us buy new clothes to replace them.
DeleteI frequently donate old clothes (it's mostly *re-donating* now since most of my wardrobe is second-hand already) and it does give me a great cleansing feeling, but I have also regretted some of those throw-outs. I think strict rules aren't good for this type of thing. If you haven't worn it in a year, you need to really seriously think about why you are keeping it, but you shouldn't feel that you have to chuck it.
ReplyDeleteIt's ok, even positive, to be emotional about clothes. I read a good article (somewhere, sometime, sorry I can't remember it) about how we should be more emotional about our possessions, not less, because that makes us value them and make more considered purchases. So I'm going with that.
However, I like the writer's approach in trying to make herself wear these items again. I keep saying I'm going to do that with my wardrobe and not doing it!